Validating approach with dementia

What is a validating approach?

A validating approach is a caregiving method that focuses on acknowledging and appreciating the feelings and experiences of individuals with dementia. Developed by Naomi Feil, this approach is rooted in empathy and respect. Its aim is to help individuals with dementia feel understood and accepted, which can contribute to their emotional well-being.

In practice

Need an example? Imagine: an elderly lady with dementia believes she is a young girl waiting for her mother to pick her up. Instead of correcting her and saying her mother passed away long ago, a caregiver might say, "Tell me about your mother. What was she like?". By acknowledging her feelings and respecting her reality, the lady feels heard and understood.

How to apply validation?

Validation can be applied in various ways. Here are some steps to get started:

1. Listen with empathy: take the time to truly listen to what the person is saying, without judgment or correction.
2. Use open-ended questions: ask questions that encourage the person to share more about their feelings and memories.
3. Acknowledge the feelings: confirm and acknowledge the person's emotions, even if they are based on an inaccurate reality.
4. Remain patient: validation requires patience and understanding. It's important to give the person space to express their emotions.

Different approaches

There are different approaches within the validation caregiving method that caregivers can use:

• Individual validation: focuses on one-on-one interactions, where caregivers acknowledge and appreciate the emotions and memories of the person with dementia.
• Group validation: in group sessions, individuals with dementia can share their experiences and feelings in a supportive environment, which can help reduce feelings of loneliness.
• Non-verbal validation: this approach uses body language, facial expressions, and touch to acknowledge and appreciate emotions, especially useful when verbal communication is challenging.

Valuable method in dementia care

The validation caregiving approach is a valuable method to support individuals with dementia by recognizing and appreciating their feelings and experiences. This approach can be applied in various ways, both individually and in group settings, and can have a positive impact on the emotional well-being of individuals with dementia. By showing empathy and respect, caregivers can create a safe and supportive environment where individuals with dementia feel understood and accepted. Want to learn more about person-centered approaches? Read about it here.